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What are the qualifications for being gay?
This is going to be a very controversial, awkward, and strange blog but i want to address this point. First off i want to state that i am not gay bashing, or trying to be racist in any way, nor do i promote such actions. And im going to say sorry for the layout, and overall strangeness of this blog i will be mostly typing off the top of my head as i think about it.

What are the qualifications for being gay?
to make it easier ill compare things to this


What are the qualifications for being an African American?
this is a simple answer that is often missunderstood and overblown

-inorder to be considered an african american you would have to have an african american decedent in your family tree that directly lead to you being born (ie stepdads, uncle, etc etc would not count)

-many people think that you have to have black skin, and other qualities that black people have (hair)

-many people go off the skin tone, instead of the actual reasoning, mostly because its much easier to assume based on quality's that they all have in common. Like ive seen very Indian people that have dark skin so they were considered black when in reality they wernt


The same can be likened to things that determine wither someone is gay

-Ive been called gay based on the way i look.
-Ive also been called gay based on two pictures..
1 http://i744.photobucket.com/albums/xx85/a2TFL/IMG00367-20091229-1851.jpg
2http://i744.photobucket.com/albums/xx85/a2TFL/IMG00062-20091015-0857-1.jpg
(1 i took it like that because many girls go nuts over pictures like that.. and i was asked to take it like that by some of my friends (that are girls)
(2 i paid 10 dollars to support breast cancer, and i really wanted to show my support so i was like i guess ill donate and get a hair extension for the hell of it lol, one of my friends (also a girl) told me since my hair is curly it looks weird so she braided it lol, to be honest i liked it a lot. But its not something i would rock normally that was a one time thing, its not like i want to dye my hair pink or anything)
-Ive been called gay based on the fact that im very clean nice and polite.
-Ive even been called gay because i said that a guy was pretty good looking
(it was like this my friend said do you think mark could get a girlfriend? i said mabye hes not that good looking.. but hes nice..(i went off the fact that he had a smooth face, and nothing was wrong with the way he looked, ie good jaw line normal sized ears etc etc)
-People can get called gay based on the way they talk
-People can be called gay based on their sexual actions (long story short my friend said he liked to have his gf finger...... but he said he would not do it himself because its weird but its ok if a girl does it... he is very straight and he most likely will never be gay haha.
-People are even called gay based on the way they speak or who they hang out with...
(ive been called gay because i tend to hang out with girls 80% of the time, girls are funny, hella random. all guys talk about is girls lol)

so this brings me to my point
i think the qualification for being gay is if you see the opposite sex and get turned on by them easily, and want to kiss etc etc...

What is your opinion? Also feel free to post reasons youve been called gay etc etc.. and what you think about this..

(f**k i just noticed i should have said homosexual instead of gay :/ ill do that later lol)

Comments

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Surreal wrote at 6:32 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
"so this brings me to my point
i think the qualification for being gay is if you see the opposite sex and get turned on by them easily, and want to kiss etc etc...
"

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MooRuce Willis wrote at 6:33 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
^ LOL
Cold Hearted MC PE wrote at 6:34 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
Where do u people come with this stuff lol
FICTION wrote at 6:39 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
I think its pretty obvious. If you like to have sex with guys you are gay.
Vulcan55 wrote at 6:43 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
Yeah.
I can see how one would come to that conclusion.
typh wrote at 6:46 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
FICTION wrote at 3:39 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
If you like to have sex with guys you are gay.
MooRuce Willis wrote at 6:47 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
yeah majority of girls are HELLA gay.
kramCAKEs wrote at 6:48 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
yeah. ****s.
kramCAKEs wrote at 6:49 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
diicks*
YungChefTj wrote at 6:51 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
lolsurreal
judge wrote at 6:55 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
what fiction said lol...dont get much better then that haha
Carls493 wrote at 7:00 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
For the first pic, I guess you just want to appeal to the ladies, like you said.

For the second pic, in some circles, it's considered manly to wear pink. A long time ago, that was actually the case, as people back then treated pink as a bleached red, and red is manly.

^What also got me when I looked up info about that is how blue used to be called a feminine color, and also happens to be my favorite color. Hmmmmmm.....
DR3W wrote at 7:31 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
If you're attracted to the same sex, you're gay/homosexual/queer whatever.

Whoever's gay, stay the **** out of Texas.
FICTION wrote at 2:47 AM on Mar 8, 2010 :
texas will shoot you. they shoot everything >_>
Jun wrote at 2:54 AM on Mar 8, 2010 :
the smartest people in this whole situation is your guy friends because they get to use you to get the girls lol

and what fiction said lol
Rich Brown wrote at 2:58 AM on Mar 8, 2010 :
Lol there's really no debate here
Jamnt0ast wrote at 2:58 AM on Mar 8, 2010 :
qualifications? you need to win the 1st round tournament to move on to round 2
BarDulL wrote at 3:01 AM on Mar 8, 2010 :
"Gay" is a sexuality.

So...obviously, you qualify as "gay" if that's your sexuality.

Being gay and acting gay are two entirely different things.
Tc wrote at 3:03 AM on Mar 8, 2010 :
FICTION wrote at 3:39 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
I think its pretty obvious. If you like to have sex with guys you are gay.


fiction for the fvcking win
Deva wrote at 4:44 AM on Mar 8, 2010 :
It's if you main TL dur.
ksizzle4life wrote at 6:28 PM on Jul 8, 2010 :
your name is shadow or zucco
Atticus wrote at 6:45 PM on Jul 8, 2010 :
Moochero wrote at 3:47 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
yeah majority of girls are HELLA gay.
Maos wrote at 7:27 PM on Jul 8, 2010 :
FICTION wrote at 3:39 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :
I think its pretty obvious. If you like to have sex with guys you are gay.


It's not rocket science. Honestly, it sounds like this was just written out of insecurity because the people in your area are all brobags with poor vocabularies.
Kokaloo wrote at 7:29 PM on Jul 8, 2010 :
i like guys ITS COMPLICATED
Champ Slice wrote at 3:23 PM on Jul 10, 2010 :
DR3W wrote at 5:31 PM on Mar 7, 2010 :

Whoever's gay, stay the **** out of Texas.
TFL wrote at 8:25 AM on Jul 18, 2010 :
lol i still cant believe i made this **** xD
Beg4Mercy wrote at 12:10 PM on Jan 13, 2014 :
Nice body.
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